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Wife and Daughter Moved back After 5 Weeks in TBH
Wife and Daughter Moved back After 5 Weeks in TBHHuge win for one of our members! The wife ends the separation after a total of 9 weeks, and 5 weeks after starting the Bulletproof Husband™ program.My wife and daughter moved back home last night. 9 weeks post slap. 5 weeks...
Go from a Broken Relationship to Slow Dancing and Cuddling with the Wife
I cannot stop thinking about when the "coin drops" for a husband. Oh shit…I need help…my wife doesn't love me anymore…she wants to leave me…she wants nothing to do with me…AND I am making it worse by how I am reacting to it. EVERY SINGLE HUSBAND WE HAVE EVER...
Wife Went from Wanting to not Have Much to Do with Her Husband to Being Naked with Coffee Delivery
Rocking it as usual and staying in the realm of commitments and not feelings! Speaking of feelings…anger is one of them. It is an immediate shift and impact on your wife when you do emotional work and let go of anger. Check this out... This TBH member's wife went from...
When you use separation to focus on internal build-up of yourself and internal wins, magic happens
Today's goods come much later than usual as I had a hectic day getting family stuff sorted that was time sensitive for our trip to Europe in October. Literally everything went wrong that could go wrong lol Plus I dislike administration stuff and that was the tune of the...
An example of an external win that happened purely because of internal wins from the weeks prior
I have been telling you the last couple days how challenging the past few weeks have been and how my wife and I came out successful on the other side.I also shared some things that I used from TBH to get there.My wife sent me this the other night lol (yes, I do pretend to...
Thoughts on Getting Your Wife to Love You Again
I am 35 years old and not really a "doctor" going person. Might be old school thinking but if you want to find a problem and you really look for it…you will. However, my wife (who is 4 years older and wiser than me) really wanted me to do a general check...
Winning Your Wife's Love Back by Focusing on Internal Wins
Last night's Monday Implementation call was awesome. Lots of internal wins shared (wins you control and based on your actions) which led to external wins (wins you don't control and based on other's actions/words). Such wins have a huge potential to lead to gaining...
Husbands Had Their Wife Drop the Affair and Come Back through TBH
I want to close the week powerfully value and content wise for you. So here it is: Her first public Facebook photo of us in two years. She also told me she loved me today. So many wins. A little overwhelmed and scared I may screw it up. I will continue to work on myself...
Take Control of Things You Can Leading to Winning Your Wife Back
I swear I got 50 million reasons to be bummed out today as life is truly testing me! Yet, I am not. Why is that? Control. I control what I can and don't what I cannot. What that does is it eliminates the unnecessary stress and anger from my life and allows me to...
Made Love 8 Times in the Three Days and Our Relationship Is Flourishing
Let me share our latest success story of a TBH member who really wanted to cut corners because he was frustrated and desperate. Didn't work so well for him until he got with the program, stopped skipping steps and followed the science we gave him… Look what that did...
Here's a Recent Message from a Husband Who Restored His Marriage In a Few Months
Here's a Recent Message from a Husband Who Restored His Marriage In a Few Months Good Morning Guys. I hope you both are well on this beautiful morning. The Sun is shining bright here in upstate NY and I can't wait to see what this day has to offer. I could write a book...
Wife puts separation on hold...in just 6 weeks
Where are you with anger and frustration? Is it controlling you? Are you a victim of it? Do you have any excuses for it? Please, please, pretty please…get the tools to make sure you stay in control and solid. Anger damages not only your marriage but the role model...
By Learning to Take Responsibility for Your Side, the Probability of Your WIfe or Ex-Wife Following
Anytime you achieved something great… something that took your life to the next level… It always felt uncomfortable right before. Very uncomfortable. You were nervous. Unsure. Doubting even. All natural feelings and state of mind. Getting your driver...
Broken Relationship to Ass Flirting?
What do you think of this? Wife: "oh man, look at the cut on my toe... wait why are you looking at my ass?" Me: "I'm actually not looking at your ass now, I'll do that when you walk away from me" Wife: smiles, rolls eyes and walks to her truck Me: I let her walk away...
How do you listen to your partner?
Straight forward enough, is it not? You listen to her, you add your piece whenever you see the opening / know you can solve the problem she has...and then for some strange reason, the conversation either ends or you end up listening to a "new problem"! As men we generally...
A Husband's Game For Life = Trivial Pursuit
Good evening Bulletproof Husband™s, John and Endre here again to talk to you about our take on the game "Trivial Pursuit". Trivial Pursuit is a board game in which winning is determined by a player's ability to answer general knowledge and popular culture questions. Most...