Become the Husband
She'd be CRAZY to Leave!
(even if she wants out)
We help men become a Bulletproof Husband™ so that no child has to experience the pain of a broken home.
Join Now!Does this sound familiar?
You have been married for many years now.
Your wife has been giving you signals to tell you something is wrong and you just can't figure out what she means.
Meanwhile you are busy with your business or professional career to be the selfless provider for your family.
Then, one day, you wake up and out of nowhere you get a slap in the face"
She says something along the lines of:
"I want to separate"
"I need some space to figure things out"
"I think we should divorce"
"I can't do this anymore"
"I cheated on you".
"I love you but not in love with you"
At this point you recognize that your marriage is falling apart and you must do something about it.
So being the "fixer", you start to"
- do research
- engage therapists or marriage counsellors
- read books
- speak to your pastor and church
- ask advice from family and friends
...and you just get more confused with the overwhelm of different information.
So then you start taking responsibility by going back to her and suggesting she works on the marriage with you - does not work as planned.
You then beg, you plead, you overcompensate and things get worse.
You then realize, "I have to work on myself". You hit the gym, you lose weight, you take ownership of things in the house, you force yourself to listen" yet still things are getting worse.
Doubt creeps in and you ask yourself - "Do I have what it takes to fix this? I feel so far down the path that it seems irreversible. She is just checked out."
There is something you can do!
The majority of marriages end in divorce. Yours doesn't have to go that way.
Now just imagine going from...
Criticized and blamed to
a loving connection.
Separated without hope to
her inviting you back.
Lost, doubting yourself to
step-by-step priorities and action plans.
Confused and frustrated to
experienced, daily guidance.
Facing this alone to
having a tribe of brothers fighting with you.
Being her doormat to
a confident, clear man living on your terms.
How men rebuilt their marriages
"My marriage has gone up massively over the last 8 weeks"
"My happiness in life and with my marriage has gone up massively over the last 8 weeks. I learned who I was as a man and how to focus on my purpose in life. I wake up every day eager to get going and live my purpose. Instead of reacting to my wife, I create a space for her to be the woman, the wife and the mother that she wants to be. This is paying off in spades. Every new day is better than the last. As a man, watching this unfold in my life is a priceless experience."
What doesn't work...
Doing it Alone
Most think it is a strength to do it alone. Truth is that it really isn't. It takes lot of courage to reach out for help. Your ego and pride has to be put down and you need to be coachable to do so. Doing it alone is the easy way out and never works.
Waiting on your wife
Good luck with that. The average woman thinks about separation, cheating or divorce for a minimum of 2 years before bringing it to your attention. During that time, she fundamentally believes that she has been working on the marriage alone and you have ignored her. She is checked out now. And you must learn how to repair the marriage without her needing to make an effort.
Hoarding free information from the internet
You tell me, how is that going for you? Free stuff is free. That is how much value you attach to it. How many pages you've downloaded, videos you've watched and saved, blogs you've read?
Counseling and therapy
80%+ of men who end up working with us have been to counseling and/or therapy. The average feedback from this 80% is that they got more value out of 1 hour of phone call with the Bulletproof Husband™ than 2 years of counseling/therapy.
Praying and hoping
It is a great spiritual comfort with good intentions but if good intentions were enough everybody would save their marriage with prayer. Instead, what if you are on this page because your prayers have been answered and what is required is here?
Advice from friends and family
They care about you and want the best for you - which means they are biased and not necessarily know what is best. So based on their own life experiences and biases, they will give advice accordingly.
From separation to restored
"It saved mine"
"In this program, you are working on yourself through homework, weekly Q&A sessions, a network of men going through similar, if not the same problems, accountability partners and given accessibility to professional men who have also experienced the same traits, but developed this program to save marriages.
It saved mine and if your 100% committed and following the successes already set into place, then it can save yours too."
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