You have been married for many years now.
Your wife has been giving you signals to tell you something is wrong and you just can't figure out what she means.
Meanwhile you are busy with your business or professional career to be the selfless provider for your family.
Then, one day, you wake up and out of nowhere you get a slap in the face"
She says something along the lines of:
"I want to separate"
"I need some space to figure things out"
"I think we should divorce"
"I can't do this anymore"
"I cheated on you".
"I love you but not in love with you"
At this point you recognize that your marriage is falling apart and you must do something about it.
So being the "fixer", you start to"
...and you just get more confused with the overwhelm of different information.
So then you start taking responsibility by going back to her and suggesting she works on the marriage with you - does not work as planned.
You then beg, you plead, you overcompensate and things get worse.
You then realize, "I have to work on myself". You hit the gym, you lose weight, you take ownership of things in the house, you force yourself to listen" yet still things are getting worse.
Doubt creeps in and you ask yourself - "Do I have what it takes to fix this? I feel so far down the path that it seems irreversible. She is just checked out."
Being criticized and blamed to
a loving connection.
Separated without hope to
her inviting you back.
Lost, doubting yourself to
step-by-step priorities and action plans.
Confused and frustrated to
experienced, daily guidance.
Facing this alone to
having a tribe of brothers fighting with you.
a confident, clear man living on your terms.
"My marriage has gone up massively over the last 8 weeks"
"My happiness in life and with my marriage has gone up massively over the last 8 weeks. I learned who I was as a man and how to focus on my purpose in life. I wake up every day eager to get going and live my purpose. Instead of reacting to my wife, I create a space for her to be the woman, the wife and the mother that she wants to be. This is paying off in spades. Every new day is better than the last. As a man, watching this unfold in my life is a priceless experience."
Most think it is a strength to do it alone. Truth is that it really isn't. It takes lot of courage to reach out for help. Your ego and pride has to be put down and you need to be coachable to do so. Doing it alone is the easy way out and never works.
Good luck with that. The average woman thinks about separation, cheating or divorce for a minimum of 2 years before bringing it to your attention. During that time, she fundamentally believes that she has been working on the marriage alone and you have ignored her. She is checked out now. And you must learn how to repair the marriage without her needing to make an effort.
You tell me, how is that going for you? Free stuff is free. That is how much value you attach to it. How many pages you've downloaded, videos you've watched and saved, blogs you've read?
80%+ of men who end up working with us have been to counseling and/or therapy. The average feedback from this 80% is that they got more value out of 1 hour of phone call with the Bulletproof Husband™ than 2 years of counseling/therapy.
It is a great spiritual comfort with good intentions but if good intentions were enough everybody would save their marriage with prayer. Instead, what if you are on this page because your prayers have been answered and what is required is here?
They care about you and want the best for you - which means they are biased and not necessarily know what is best. So based on their own life experiences and biases, they will give advice accordingly.
"It saved mine"
"In this program, you are working on yourself through homework, weekly Q and A sessions, a network of men going through similar, if not the same problems, accountability partners and given accessibility to professional men who have also experienced the same traits, but developed this program to save marriages.
It saved mine and if your 100% committed and following the successes already set into place, then it can save yours too."
You need to create the changes in your marriage for the long-term for which you need us holding your hand all the way through
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"I spent years and a ton of money on different kinds of therapy and coaching. While it served me to get back on my feet in the business world and as a father to 3 little kids nothing clicked in my head like the program at Bullet Proof Husband..Though the hard work I did on other programs helped wake me up a bit, the Bulletproof Husband™ has shown me the real way to behave and believe as a man and husband."
Let's face it, even if you have been to counseling or therapy you are still doing it alone. Maybe you went to 1 or 2 sessions a week best case scenario and yet you are still having a challenge. Getting daily guidance and having a support structure that you can consistently rely on is what's required to rebuild your marriage.
Men constantly play "bingo" with their marriage, shooting in the dark by simply implementing ad hoc ideas. Worst of all is that most men base their success on how their wife reacts which is terrible because there is no consistency. You need proven tools and guidance that gets you to the other side.
Definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result". It's time to try something new and revolutionary that is based on non-traditional approaches and perspectives - clearly the old school approach does not work. Why? Because you are reading this, hence it didn't work for you.
The average partner thinks about separation, divorce or cheating for 2+ years before bringing it to their partner's attention.
The clock is ticking, and since you don't want the family and business/career empire you have built to fall, you should do something about it now.
Yes, so have I. Generalizing something because of having spent money on something that did not work is foolish. You set yourself up for a trap. And your family is worth you finding the solution that works for you because they deserve it. Money is money. Keeping your family together is EVERYTHING.
You are struggling in your marriage right? So why not get uncomfortable and still struggle but come out on the other side? If you continue to struggle the current way it will be indefinite and never ending. Facing your barriers and crushing them (which is our specialty) may get you uncomfortable at times, but it's worth it!
A one-on-one coaching call with one of our professional coaches to customize the program to your needs.
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If you do your research you will find that a really good marriage counselor or therapist will cost you about $150/hour.
If you're on a call with them 9 hours per week (like our program), that would be $5,805 per month.
TBH VIP Membership is $297 per month.
Do the math (HINT - SAVE $5,508.00), and that doesn't even cover the daily guidance, modules or community of men.
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