Being criticized and blamed to
a loving connection.
Separated without hope to
her inviting you back.
Lost, doubting yourself to
step-by-step priorities and action plans.
Confused and frustrated to
experienced, daily guidance.
Facing this alone to
having a tribe of brothers fighting with you.
a confident, clear man living on your terms.
Most think it is a strength to do it alone. Truth is that it really isn't. It takes lot of courage to reach out for help. Your ego and pride has to be put down and you need to be coachable to do so. Doing it alone is the easy way out and never works.
Good luck with that. The average woman thinks about separation, cheating or divorce for a minimum of 2 years before bringing it to your attention. During that time, she fundamentally believes that she has been working on the marriage alone and you have ignored her. She is checked out now. And you must learn how to repair the marriage without her needing to make an effort.
You tell me, how is that going for you? Free stuff is free. That is how much value you attach to it. How many pages you've downloaded, videos you've watched and saved, blogs you've read?
80%+ of men who end up working with us have been to counseling and/or therapy. The average feedback from this 80% is that they got more value out of 1 hour of phone call with the Bulletproof Husband™ than 2 years of counseling/therapy.
It is a great spiritual comfort with good intentions but if good intentions were enough everybody would save their marriage with prayer. Instead, what if you are on this page because your prayers have been answered and what is required is here?
They care about you and want the best for you - which means they are biased and not necessarily know what is best. So based on their own life experiences and biases, they will give advice accordingly.